Hi BobbiJo. I have been a long-time reader of your situation because I relate so much to the things you say. This post really struck home with me.

All the points you made about why you don't want to heal and move on are just how I feel. It is so hard to feel like I have given up on my marriage and my kids will never have the stability of their parents being married to each other anymore.

Anyway, just wanted to say that I think you are doing a great job and you have been inspiring to read. I always enjoy your posts.


Me W41 WAH43
D13 D11
Married 18 years
S March 2009
D filed by me April 2010
WAH/EA/PA