180'n the MLC

[punkin]

Just found out WH had his son and daughter-in-law up for a 'meet the OW' visit, which my daughter-in-law found very uncomfortable. Now, OW is facebooking her every day and asking for all the grands birthdays, etc., just like she's a member of the f#$king family. DIL told her this has been very hard on the family and that she wasn't making it easier by doing that. I'm the grandma that's been there for every birth, every birthday, every big event, made dolls, made clothes, made lunch, etc. I feel like this bitch thinks she can just 'move me out'. I know she can't if I don't let her, but things would still never be the same. Besides, WH surgery didn't go so good, he should be medically discharged soon, and she can be spreading her legs for some other officer on a business trip.

Sorry for the rant, but right now I feel so pushed out of the family and it hurts, even though I know it's only the WH & OW doing it. It still hurts so bad that my loving husband of 20 years could just disrespect me so badly because he made a bad decision 3 months ago, and can't face the truth.