Well she lied to me. She went there and left two hours later. I never heard from her. Today i got a phone call the kids couldnt find something. So i found this out and called her.
Apparently she was "currently" with the coworker/lady friend. I have no idea what she did lastnight, but it was a lie. She wasnt ready to have a discussion with me and said she had pretty much made up her mind. I got upset and told her not to bother coming home.
Later she texted to make arrangements for getting stuff for the week ahead and get the rest later. So she has her clothes now.
I've lost trust in her.
Now I'm trying to stay busy, but am completely lost and alone.