Part of getting back together, at least in any sort of HEALTHY way, is that both partners in the marriage need to have their needs met. One partner "not going for that," when "that" is something that is "a dream come true!" for the other . . . well, that's a big red flag to me.
This reconciliation is your opportunity to START FRESH with your marriage, each of you communicating better than previously, and standing up for your own needs better than before. If you are afraid to being things up to him that are "dreams come true" for you, then you're really putting yourself back into an unhealthy, subservient position.
Is that really where you want to be? Why not at least bring it up, tell him how much it would mean to you, and give him the opportunity to do with it what he will?
