Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Well STBXW came over this morning to drop DD off and just as I'd suspected DD didn't want her to leave. She cried big time. STBXW pretended like it was no big deal trying to distract her etc but she's not that little anymore and wasn't getting distracted. She didn't want to leave her mom's lap.

Finally I had to peel her away and tell STBXW to go. About an hour later she texts me "can we please reconsider the weekend splits, it's hard on DD. please let me know how she's doing. Thanks"

I wanted to say so much but I just replied back with:

"She stopped crying soon after you left- but don't fool yourself thinking that it's any easier on her even when she's not crying"

I just don't care anymore about watching what I say...she's doing the worst possible things to me as is so why should I keep my mouth shut. So I'm contemplating sending her an email that tells her how her patterns are exactly what they were before and how wrong she was and how she hurt not only us but herself too. If she needs a reality check she should read the remorseful emails she sent to be before we reconciled after 2 years of being separated.