Well, I took care of the inside and outside work today...again. I was not at all happy while I was doing the work knowing she ignores me about helping. I kept thinking to myself why in the hell am I doing this? Not only why am I doing the work (I feel like I should just let the damn house go to pot if she doesn't help) but why am I still trying to put all kinds of effort into saving this M with this woman. This woman is most definitely not my W. Ugh! Ok, breath...

Question. Should I email my W today (with Gucci's email) or wait until Monday? I feel like if I email her today that might just put a damper on her precious weekend.

Second question. Our emails have been from her married name email. When the agent emails us she emails W on her maiden name email. I was thinking when I email my W I should email both of her emails. She would probably get the email to her maiden name email today. She probably won't check her maiired email to Monday.

These are all probably really stupid questions but I am so upset right now and needed to vent. Whew...


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch