H text me this morning to apologise for something ow had put in the mail to me. H said it was inapropriate and he was very sorry.
On Thursday he took his car tax form unopened back to where he lives with OW. Unknown to him OW opened it and found my car tax in there as well as H as both the cars are in H name.
Subsequently OW scrawled all over the form in big red writing 'pay your own fukc**g car tax' and then posted it back to me via the mail. I rang H before I received it and said it would be nice to know what I was expecting. True to form he didn't answer the telephone as he is now on holiday with OW. H left a message on my phone in reply. He sounded tearful, depressed and at the end of his tether. He said he didn't know why she had done it, couldn't believe it and didn't understand nor did H know fully what had been written but OW had apologised to him!
ApParently she lost her dad a few days ago and is very emotional and this is totally out of character........ Well it looks as if OW is opening H mail. I have never done that even when I knew it was car tax etc.
I haven't retalited as I will continue to give her the rope to hang herself. Normally H would have got a blasting so this is 180 for me and it feels good because I have not done what he thinks I will do.
How do I handle this when he visits the children and raises the question?
