I would go as dim as possible, drop the rope fully and put your focus on something else. Start showing him what a legal divorce will look like. Right now he has the best of both worlds IMO.
nm...when you started to do this recently, his behavior did change. This is when he became sheepish, kinda pouty, awkward.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
