Cake-eating is H getting his needs met by you that OW can't meet. It is having both of you with out consequences for him.
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Gosh this is reminiscent of something...the dance of dating almost. I mean you need to let the guy know you are interested but the trick is to let him take the lead. If they ask you out, you say yes and then wait for them to call you. If they call after the date, you let them know you had a good time and would like to do it again (showing interest) but let them be the one to ask next...be patient and not freak out if you don't get a call the next day. Relax and know it might not happen for a week even because he is probably dating other women!
I think this is detached behavior! Where you are not reacting to him but choosing how to respond.
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