Hey you guys - thanks! I'll try to see what I can do regarding counseling and Retrouville and stuff, but I just don't think he's going to go for it no matter how wonderful things are between us. But ... for my part, I will try. Thing is, I know him. I know what he will and what he will not do. Remember, he's a high profile lawyer. When he says something he generally means it. He doesn't just make idle chit chat. Don't get ME wrong ..... I'd LOVE to go to counseling and stuff together - that would be a dream come true! I promose - I will keep trying, and I'll keep you guys posted.