Quote: It's all in the attitude and inner dialogue, Karen.
That's a big part of "act as if"...so tell yourself it's OKAY that you come up with the suggestions, why not add in that 50 min drive as a possibility..you NEVER know!
Tell yourself you WILL have a great time! Even if it's doing something more "typical".
Moods ARE infectious...THINK and ACT your way to success!!!
Shiny
I know I need to do this. I am having some anxiety. Feeling nervous about h going out. Feeling weirded out about us spending time together-like why does he go out-out with his friends and then sit around with me? I feel like his energy gets drained b/c he goes out, drinks, comes home late, gets up early. Maybe it is ok to sit around with him during the week and go out-out on the weekend? the more fun i am the more willing he will be to drive to cleveland?
I know I need to be patient. I feel like I ran into a wall (break down of patience) on Friday, and I am having a hard time getting over it. i was acting quite cheerful though yesterday and this morn. When he got home last night he asked what i did and I said, "not much." He asked what not much is and I told him just library and grocery store. wish i had something more "mysterious" to say like I went out to a bar or club or something.
