i'm really kicking myself for the backslide last week. to be honest, things were really going well and according to the plan the db coach set up...and i screwed it up. i know i can't blame myself but it really set me back. i should have just kept my mouth shut.
Forget about it..
In reality, he probably has too..
Mistakes are only that, IF you keep making them.
Wallowing in them and not moving forward, keeps YOU from taking a step forward for you.
Dwelling on them allows you to focus on the marriage and not yourself.
Originally Posted By: Pandora
H is now withdrawing again. sigh. he's talking about the D in more final terms and the plan is that things will end at the end of July.
And he told you this ?
That is an assumption that is bringing only you down.
Whatever is going on right now with him....has to happen...
And the more you focus on where he is...the less you can focus on where you are.
