Thank you for your support. I actually asked my lawyer to requeest he not contact me unless it was through the lawyers, because every time he did it was to yell and accuse and threaten me. Always angry. He threatened to have a N/C put on ME, and I told him that sounded like a plan. I was hoping that in some way this was a way to "180" him communication with me. I haven't talked to he, either by phone or email x 3 weeks. Actually, it's killing ME!