Hey SR, that's great that you forgot your anniversary, good work! I wish I could forget mine but it happens to be on Christmas Eve. I ask you what kind of idiot gets married on Christmas Eve? The Pastor thought it would be so romantic! Sorry about the developments with wife. The negotiating phase can bring out the very worst in people. It's kind like when there's a death in the family and family members end up not speaking to each other for years. It's just weird. Sometimes I think the only way the spouse ending the M can get through it is to become super bitchy and mean. I have a co-worker whose wife got up one Sunday morning, told him their marriage was over and then left. He hadn't even got out of bed yet! She became an incredible bitch about everything, he got through it by just maintaining a businesslike approach and staying away from blowups with her. On the bright side, he did lose 30lbs due to it but we've decided to market this as the Catostophic Life Event Diet...worry those lbs away! Hang in there, SR! Oh and about that name change for you, I say go with Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious Romeo, that way you keep your initials and have a new catchy screen name too!