piano- I might know what you are talking about re: the loo...I think things improved by 3-4 weeks for me so I hope the same applies to you!
S had the milk rash also and it bugged me so much! But it was gone by the time he was 8 weeks...and also, his face totally changed from his squishy newborn face to his current face around 6-8 weeks! I don't know if that makes sense...but what I am saying is that by the time he was 2 months old, his facial features became permanent and now he is a larger version of his 2 month old face!
just sharing. Let us know about the hip displasia- I heard that if babies are born with it, treatment in the first few months is highly successful.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004