Yes divorce is the gift that keeps on giving. I can imagine that XW probably put them in a position to make a choice. However, it will come back to bite her in the arse, because the kids WILL resent her for it.

And they will turn to you for answers. This is where your growth will come in, because you won't put them in that position.

I don't know what these people are thinking. (((Hugs)))

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..