Quote: But I know that by virtue of my feeling this pit, things won't turn out the way I would like. H will feel the vibes and feel put off, etc. How do I shake it??
It's all in the attitude and inner dialogue, Karen.
That's a big part of "act as if"...so tell yourself it's OKAY that you come up with the suggestions, why not add in that 50 min drive as a possibility..you NEVER know!
Tell yourself you WILL have a great time! Even if it's doing something more "typical".
Moods ARE infectious...THINK and ACT your way to success!!!