I know the confusion and pain. I know that you are telling us everything. I know you are 'trying' to draw a line in the sand and show us how you are taking actions.
But you are not taking the right actions and mind set.
I believed that my WAW's OM 'friend' was platonic. It wasn't.
I believed it was a symptom of our issues, It wasn't.
I believed as you believe.................
Take control. Set the agenda's
Get legal advice.
Do not share YOUR woman.
Can you control your finances - if you can, cut her off from your money.
Most of all.
You must allow only one thought to help you choose your actions.
You must do what is right, not what you think may ease the situation.
When you take this mind set she will react with anger. Expect the anger.
Read my sitch from the start - there are 2 distinct parts.
Gyn.
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.
