I'm the sole source of steady income...WW is self employed and in the process of launching a business.
So if she is forced to get a job to contribute to the household as part of D, then again I look like the bad guy for her not being able to get her business off the ground.
But as you said, continued contact with her "friend" i.e. OM is extremely disrespectful to me, our marriage and our family.
Again, she always tries to put at back on me as "do what you need to do"...
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10