she said that the way she's been treating me is one of the reasons she's wanted divorce
Does this make sense on some other planet? She is treating you like crap because she wants a divorce and doesn't respect you. It's not the other way around.
The sheer audacity of folks who rationalize such behavior is a miracle to behold.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-