I'm trying to read some more threads here on the bb, and something form your last one really sounded familiar to me:
Quote: I get very jealous, insecure, dependent, and needy. I am very affectionate and like to spend time with H. I have gotten into many many accusations against him claiming that he doens't care about me, or by getting jealous over him talking to old female friends. (Even made scenes in public!)
Initially, he reassured me, but got tire of it, b/c I would continue to get upset. Eventually he backed off more and more. Then we would start the uphill swing and I would crash, causing up to take steps back. Then we'd have to rebuild again, and again, and again.
It sounds like you have really made progress in this area - congratulations! I have alot of the same issues, with the same affect on my H.
Thank you for the inspiration, and keep up the good work!
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche
