You said she has been going out with her girlfriends.
THAT is more than likely where the OM comes into the picture. When single women go out to the bars and party with their girlfriends you can bet that there are men in the picture somewhere. Most all women I have ever met and talked to have a certain man that they like. Rarely if ever have I met a woman that doesn't have the hots for some guy and is hung up on him. I can't remember ever talking to a woman that didn't have any interest in any guy and was just out and about partying and totally neutral. The guy she likes either doesn't like her, or she is going through a breakup that HE initiated and she wants him back. Most times women (and men) have someone else in the wings when they initiate a breakup and is acting as your wife is acting. They go out with their girlfriends and then end up at the place together that the man they are interested in is at. They don't like to be seen alone. Your P.I. would be wise to hang out where she is hanging out.
