I burned that for her with MY inability to do what she needed and asked me to do, that I said I could and would do and even did for awhile before slacking off. Thats the truth and I have to live with it.
AND you should be telling her that SHE burned it for YOU too.
You can't see that YOU are chasing her even though she is the one saying she has no trust in you? YOU are the one trying to prove that you can be trusted.
So the reality here is that the one who isn't trusting the other person is the one being chased. You don't see that? The one chasing is the one NOT trusted. The one being chased is the one who doesn't trust. So the reality to me is that what SHE is doing is the thing that is working. Not vice versa. She is getting you to chase her. I will tell you. She KNOWS that you are justified by not trusting her. She secretly should EXPECT that you shouldn't trust her. It wouldn't hurt you one bit by telling her you don't trust her and standing strong on that belief. She wants trut from you then she should earn it by moving out on her own. She knows she has you chasing and she knows that she is doing the very thing that she wouldn't in any way want YOU to do. Go ahead, get another woman to move in with you and do the same thing and see what she says. Try it. I would venture to say that it would be you that would say. "I won't do that because I don't want her to think that I have someone else." Then bring another woman to sit with you at the concert.
