So I do have a question: Wether it is depression, the OM or the WAW syndrome, is it common for a spouse to simply want to cut their LBS completely out of there lives?
Yes, it's normal: they want to get on with their new lives. It's good for you too right now.
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Or should it be viewed that our R and M are totally gone and I should just move on and not look back?
Even if your W were to decide she made a mistake, your R and M are over now. She has moved out and filed for divorce. That is the reality. You have no choice but to let go and move forward.
It' time to become comfortable not knowing what the future will bring, and then to start making your own plans and living your own life without worrying about what your W is doing.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 06/05/1001:33 PM.
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