Originally Posted By: mza8
Originally Posted By: gucci loafer

Maybe men really do get Playboy to read only the articles...

It is possible.


^^^^LOL

SOTR, listen to robx, gucci and greek. They are giving you good advice. I'm just about 8 months into my sitch and turned a blind eye to things up until recently. I am now at the point I am going to bust my a$$ to find out for sure if there is OM or not because I want to save my M. If you want to save your M please don't be naive. Listen to the advice given to you too. These people want to help you save your M.

Good luck!


That's the thing. I AM looking at this with eyes wide open. I've already acknowledged more then once that there COULD be something physical going on, but I also know there's NOTHING I can do about it other then fighting to keep custody of the kids. Which is full of potential blow back. He isn't in any relationship that I know of , so there's nothing for me to bust. I'm NOT being naive', I'm trying to navigate the situation the best I can in a way that most likely ensures an eventual reconciliation.