Well, MAYBE her ex HAS changed. It IS possible. Maybe the fight with his sister changed him and he is no longer abusive. It IS possible.
Maybe men really do get Playboy to read only the articles...
It is possible.
I brought up the fight with the sister yesterday. The fact is I have run multiple background checks and cant find a record of an arrest for domestic violence in his name or DOB from last year. The only thing I have to go on is his daughters hysterical phone call to me. I don't doubt that he was arrested , but if it was something for traffic tickets or something like that then there wouldn't be a record of that in our State and it wouldn't have anything to do with domestic violence. If there were no physical signs of injury or a fight, and the other party declines to press charges, then the officers have discretion. Now, that doesn't change the fact that there was SOME kind of argument or altercation that took place and that is something I plan on addressing. The only thing I can try to get is see if there's an incident report or something from the responding department and what it might say.