help with a plan

[LSG]

IDU,

You are a really good person, and I am so sorry for all that you have gone through lately with you WAW. However, you are doing a great job taking care of yourself and your kids. You can be very proud of the person you are and your kids will too. They have good role model in you.

Your attitude is very positive. I know you want your marriage to work as we all do, but you are not willing to compromise yourself or your values. For that, you are doing great.

I would wait a little bit for your W to say something or when you feel it is the right time to bring up MC. From my experience, I felt too much time between sessions was not helpful. I wish the sessions were consistent for me and the W.