Well no...you don't give that impression but the fact you guys have been separated so long I wondered if one or both of you are waiting for something. Sounds like you aren't and she hasn't owned up to her mistakes or else she would've at least tried to change some things about her.

Well, it sucks that you couldn't get along as well as you do now vs. when you were married. It's something my STBXW said to me not long ago 'we get along fine when we're not husband and wife' ugh! that about killed me because that's not true it's what she wants to believe. But I'm sure that in some situations it is true...


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again