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Sandi: I completely understand the need to lash out.I will not be run off, I have made a mess and i want to clean it up and try to right the wrongs i have done.

Yes I would say that I took her for granted. I will not say that she trusted me. She was constantly checking up on me. She didn't actually leave, she asked me to, but no I knew for a long time prior to dday that I wanted her. Just couldn't figure out how to get rid of OW.

I don't mind the questions b/c I truely want the help.

We have had 2 or 3 conversations that she started about being done. I do not bring it up. I am just trying to show her i love her by doing. Telling her I love her seems like empty words, I feel I need to show her I love her. I don't pressure her. Last night i spent the night in our house at her request. She was gone on a meeting and wanted me to baby sit the dog. Our visitation is pretty loose. She allows me to come to our house in the mornings to help get son ready. After work she usually goes to her parent house for supper and I wait for her to text that they are home. That is my invitation to come up and spend time with son until bedtime. Tonight we both gave him a bath. We are trying to keep it normal as can be for him. Weekends are a whatever works for the both b/c I farm also and son goes with me some and stays with mom some. (fyi I stay with my folks right now. Our house, my folks house, and in laws house is all on the same street in a town of 300 people.) There is some phone and email contact both ways. So you think this should cease?

I am 98% sure that wife knows I have not contacted OW. I think the OW may just be waiting until I D and then she thinks I will come seek her out. I am sure this was the motivation for her to talk to my wife.

No she hasn't filed yet. In our state you can file, but it cant be finalized while she is pregnant.

No I don't think she is talking to my wife anymore.

NC has been maintained and will be maintained.