The other thing that WW does is to accuse me of being selfish.

WW also tries to use our DD's against me by telling me that a D or separation would negatively affect them emotionally and that their activities would have to be cut because of finances.

If it came to D I'm certain she would tell her friends that it's my fault because I'm being selfish and only thinking of my needs/desires.

I also don't know what to tell my DD's if we do separate.

Now I realize that it is on her and I've told her that she will own any negative consequences if we do separate or D.

Last edited by loweinsd51; 06/05/10 04:19 AM.
M-43
FWW-42
T 20
M 16
DD10
DD8
EA: 1/10
Informal separation: 6/11/2010
Headed for D: 7/6/2010
Piecing? 9/10/10