Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

She did not allow me. The wake for a co-worker's grandmother whom W talks to about our sitch. Last thing W wants is for me to be there, will send wrong signal to co-worker.

While W was gone I called off work and decided to go through with the movie.

W returned home. W started to tell me how the wake was and how she met a few people ect... W said I had an attitude which I did not. She does that often I don't necessarily know how to respond to it.

So we were about to head and I realized I needed to mail out my car payment, usually W handles such task (finances) but she has been slipping up as of late. I said to W "I need to write out the check for car payment can you show me how to make it out for future reference?" W did not respond so I said "nevermind I just remembered that pas checks and scanned on posted on banking website I will log on there and look at a past check and use it as an example" W did not like that, she rolled her eyes and shook her head and said "I'll do it, its ok" so W did it and I thanked her, W then questioned "whats you problem?" and I said I have none, she ask that often as well.

We went to a store looked at some new bedding, we were pointing out the sets we each like after a short while W said "well it is up to you whatever you want" we ended up getting a few things for the house. I started to pay and W said she had it, I insisted but then she said "I'll pay for this you pay for the movie" and so we agreed...

we headed to the movie. IT was good, we had some laughs ad exchanged words during the movie, overall pretty good time. Movie ended we exited the theater, it was pouring rain so I told W to wait inside adn I will get the car. W waited inside I went and got car. We then headed home and had a couple convos on the way.

A lot of bitterness and her assuming something is wrong with me....