Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

I don't exactly know how else to look into this other than to hire a PI? Any suggestions? I'm all ears. I think Puppy might have some suggestions on this subject. I'm on the alt if that's a better place to discuss this. I can tell you how to find me. I want to get to the bottom of this once and for all if this is indeed happening.

I am going to meet with two mutual friends next week and hope they will be honest with me if they know something. Should I tell my W that I suspect their is OM? Try to get her to admit it? I can be pretty persuasive to her. Should I confront her family and tell them I suspect this? See if I can get them to admit it? One of them might slip up and give me the info. I'm not sure how to proceed with this if there is a possibiity of OM. Maybe there is and maybe there isn't but I want to find out. After 8 months and no progress I think it's finally time to do some major digging on this issue.