Well, then it is about time you did your homework and seriously tried to find this OM. Don't go into it trying to find ways to say she isn't, but with the attitude that the shoe fits and the evidence is pointing that way. Why do I say this? Because of 20 plus years of observing these things. The evidence IS there. It has been for some time. I am glad to see you finally coming to terms with that possibility and reality. Too many red flags to not look seriously into it. It certainly would answer an awful lot of questions that don't make sense until you factor that in the equation. It then makes all the sense in the world.
