so are you here to bust your divorce and turn things around or are you here to tell us stories about how you actually spend time with your wife and the OM?
What's your goal?
Do you want to achieve some results in your situation by doing things you normally WOULDN'T do or do you plan on doing things the same you have always done them, achieve the same results and continue complaining about your situation.
Time to make a decision with your life.
If you're going to continue doing the same things and act like an unattractive "wussy" man, what's the point of being on this site, it can't just be about getting sympathy for you situation (re: IT HURTS SO BAD...) because you will get some sympathy at first but after a while when we all see you're not willing to change or do things that are different and counter-intuitive to what you normally think would work, the sympathy will stop.
You have a chance right now to change the course of direction in your life and by doing so change your life.
It's an awesome responsibility to have but may possibly provide you with the greatest things you will ever have in your life.
