WH has asked daughter to drive to where he lives with OW ( 80 miles ) to bring him his CPAP which he left here 3 months ago, and so he can see her two sons, our grandsons. She has warned him that OW best not be there, and he has agreed that she will not. I can't help but worry. He is trying so hard to stuff this woman down the throats of everyone in the family. I know, worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do, but doesn't get you anywhere, but this daughter would be deeply, emotionally hurt is he lies to her. Even if he doesn't, this is a hard thing for her to do. Why is he doing this to her?