You know, to be perfectly honest, I'm not afraid anymore if I find out there is OM. I would rather know and expose it. I could then figure out if I would still want to save M and if W would too. I feel like that would at least be a step in some sort of direction. I don't quite understand why she would want to hide OM? She already left. What's the big deal if she were to tell me if this is the case? If I left I would care less if she knew if I was seeing someone else.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch