You are more than welcome..

I am observing you and you ARE coming around.....

I will say it again.. The best way to get a woman back is to let her go on her merry little way. Find a woman who WANTS to be with you and thinks you are the best thing since sliced bread.
You will be amazed how you will suddenly have a skip in your step and wonder why you didn't do it sooner. Life will suddenly be wonderful......

and then.. your wife will more than likely make a move back toward you.. not before you let go.... AFTER... she MUST feel that you have let go.. Right now, I suspect she is caught up in another man. Sorry, but that is what almost always is the case. Go with the odds.