Gucci, yes, good advice on the cleaning issue and email. I will send her the email exactly like you suggest. I agree, I don't want to get into a pissing match over this issue with W. It's not worth it. I would have in the past so this would be a 180 for me.

You're also right about discussing W with agent. The agent offered the info about W sounding stressed out. I must admit that I asked about the apartment. I'll keep my mouth shut with agent from now on. Point well taken. I hope at some point my W begins to wonder what I'm doing or why I took care of something. I completely agree that this is what I want to happen. I would see this as a good thing.

Thanks Gucci.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
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