Glimmerman, so good to hear from you man. How are things with your sitch coming along? I hope things are positive for you.

You could be right about my W. She might be scared regarding the finances. I'm not sure what else I can do to help that issue? The house is for sale.

The cleaning person is probably more me trying to get her to show a little respect and accept some responsibility. I agree it's not a huge issue to me if she actually does it or not but I'm not happy that she chooses to ignore me on the subject.

I still can't get her to talk to me GM. I don't think I've read another sitch here where the W hasn't talked to the H in almost 8 months and said what her issues are with the M. It's unbelievable. I don't know what to do at this point? Some of my friends tell me to try to reach out to her and ask her out. Some tell me to remain patient and give her more time. Man, this is driving me crazy. Part of me wants to write her a letter with a deep hearted apology for the specific things I let her down on.

I still see no signs of any other man and I continue to look. Friend of mine can hook me up with a PI if I want. I don't know. I found out that she mostly goes out with her GFs on the weekends. I have finally gotten my act together and feel comfortable now if I did contact W and reach out. Some days I feel like I have a plan and some days I feel like I don't have a clue.

Anyway, I'm sitting outside right now listening to live music at one of the places W and I used to go to a lot. Band is pretty good. I'm having a good and relaxing time.

Give us an update with your sitch and don't be a stranger.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch