I invited her ( strictly as friends ) to a free Country Music Concert I got last minute tickets for, that I was taking our daughter to anyway. I know she wants to go, but its now a question of her work schedule. She also told me that IF she went, HE would have to go also ( I cant be a dick to him like that after what he's done for me ). I told her there was NO WAY I was at a point where I could be sociable with him and suggested an alternative of if we sat apart from each other and she split her time between sitting with me and our daughter and sitting with him and she did say she would consider it, so that's a positive I guess.
First. It isn't true that you invited her "strictly as friends"
Second. What in the world are you thinking? First, you shouldn't have asked her because that shows you are willing to share her with another man. Then you cave and tell her that you WILL go out with her and let her split her time with you and her EX (OM)??????
You seriously need to tell her you changed your mind about that. That is WEAK and is needy and does not attract women to you. Please don't do that.. Come on man, you are doing things out of panic. Not wise.. Not wise at all..
