Kat, I miss a day or 2 around here and I missed about 5 pages worth of stuff!!! Sorry to hear about K. ((((((kat))))))))
Not sure what to say. And that doesn't happen much.
I think the great thing is you did open yourself up to a new sitch; it didn't work out, but I think a lot of times dating doesn't work out. You found out that you can care again for someone; you just have to find the right someone. It sounds like he's dating someone new, but you know that doesn't mean he's married. If you're meant to be, maybe in 6 months or a year or 2 you'll get together, or maybe you'll meet someone better by then.
Glad you have tomorrow night. You need time to recharge. I've really realized that the last year now that I have it. Have you ever looked into meetup.com. They were just talking about that today at lunch....