Now if I could have a dollar for every time I thought that - I would pay your lawyers bill. I think everyone thinks that. But we dont act upon it because the next step happens when the anger and hate dissapate and your left with indifference .
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So which lessons, exactly, would you recommend I learn?
Not for me to say. You need to recognise what it is that brought you to this situation. Who are you or what situations got you to this poiont in your life?
If you dont work that stuff out, you will probably find the same problems but different wife down the track !. You could also move away but you are still going to have the same issues in that town. You have to face this crap and then take measures to correct yourself.
What we focus on is always enormous and all consumimg SP. you need to take the heat out of your situation. Who cares if you can hear her clip clopping along or sending a message.Dont bite that poison apple , focus on what matters and all her crap does not matter. focus on what is right in the situation and dont bend at all. Dont argue or discuss or even frown when she is spewing her venom at you.
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I don't know. I spent over a year in a nasty place fearing a bullet in the brain or an IED blowing my legs off, yet mercifully I didn't attract either. So....
I understand that there are 100s of millions of people in USA. Does everyone of you go to war? Thank goodness there are those that do choose to be soldiers, But what makes you choose and not your neightbour to do a tour of duty. I believe it is what makes SP , SP .
