What you think will be the route of least conflict.
I can not convince you of the benefit of your gaining a positive mind set.
You will have read it all before...
The fact is that you must gain peace of mind.
You are jumbled.
There are so many twists and turns, which do you follow? Contradictory?!
It feels like it!
You need to grasp everything. What is happening now... What you can do now...
What you can change...
And then settle down....
listen to the vets...
Stop taking the punches on the chin and then turning the other cheek. Because if you were to react it would make it worse in your world...
What has worked so far......?
Simply
Do the right thing.
Take the reaction from them....
In my experience, trying to mediate and avoid conflict, does not work!!
You must draw a line in the sand..
Gyn
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.