I'm actually going out tonight as well. Kids are with my folks and my close gf (the one who made the remark about H's face) told me that her hubby (my h's bff) was picking him up to go to a ballgame.
I text H to tell him that a wore had hit the account. (he didn't know about it). He asked that I transfer it for him and I did and then he thanked me (odd he was being polite). Then I just got home and noticed that he took my laundry to my moms house. Very odd
stay tuned
Xoxo to you guys!
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
We didn't see H at all this weekend really. He was "ill" Saturday (I think his illness was a hangover but what do I know) and didn't take S5 to practice. I was like okay feel better.
He started texting me later that afternoon and started off suggesting I sell my rings to pay our debt (his credit line and a cc that I'm on). I just said that I'd look into it because I didn't want to argue or get into it with him. He kept trying to bait me to fight but I kept my composure.
He kept going over how I hurt him. But in a civil way no name calling. He kept saying how he would have never done what He did but that he tried to snap me out of it and I never did and he just checked out. I apologized to him and we just went back and forth.
He said that he can't be with someone who doesn't want him to succeed. I told him that wasn't true and I brought up OW andh e kept saying that she has nothing to do with us or him and thatshe is happy with her new soon to be husband and that I should be happy to.
I was like how do you expect that to happen?
We just continued back for forth for hours really.
I want my husband back in my life. I am starting to think that I just need to back off and give him the space that he needs.
My constantly arguing with him is making him hate and not want to be with me.
I need to stop falling into old habits.
Any suggestions? Keep GAL and do 180's right?!?
Like MWD said. I have to roll up my sleeves ad realize that I'm going to have to do most of the work and that it may be unfair but that's what it is. Xoxo to all
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
