I asked my W if she would like to go to the movies today. I would have to call off work to spent the evening with her. W said "if you want" I replied "I would like to but it is really up to you, if your up to it" W then shrugged her shoulders and said "we can go"
I asked W what is the best way to do this. She is going to a wake for co-worker grandmother. I suggested that I drive with her, drop her off at the funeral home and go to a store in the area, when she was done we would go tot he show straight from there...W said we can go when she gets back home, which is senseless because we would have to drive back out that way again...
I made a comment to W about her arm brace and she said "I know somebody already made fun of me about it" as she laughed and I said "I was not making fun of you just commenting is all" and I turned my head back to the news and she said "What!?!?" I asked what in response she said the faces your making as she nods her head walks away and talks to herself.
I wanted to say something but did not.
my question is, Would I be wrong to now go to work canceling out our plan to see the movie? would that leave a bad taste in her mouth? I am just upset about her attitude and her decisions that I don't think it is work me not going to work for her to act like this OR should I just suck it up and be thankful she is willing to go to the show with me?
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10