I know one of her needs is conversation but it seems that she turns to him for conversation instead of me. I pretty much meet her financial, domestics, and family support needs and that's pretty much it.

One of her complaints is that I don't communicate with her so I don't know if I should start a 180 or not.

Whenever I confront her about OM she accuses me of being controlling and that I'm "spying" on her.

Last edited by loweinsd51; 06/04/10 09:50 PM.
M-43
FWW-42
T 20
M 16
DD10
DD8
EA: 1/10
Informal separation: 6/11/2010
Headed for D: 7/6/2010
Piecing? 9/10/10