Just wondering ... have you ever gone and watched him play? Do you guys have a babysitter you call on sometimes? I was thinking you could swing by the rink just as he is finishing up some night and say you were out and about and thought he might like to grab a coffee ... or something equally casual. And if he says no then just a quick "no worries - see ya at home" ... dunno, just thinking outloud ...
Take a deep breath and read some of your posts to me you give good advice so take some of it for yourself ... detach some more, work on you, take care of you.
My DB coach suggested 'butterfly touches' ... just the odd little touch, brushing my hand across his shoulder if he was sitting at the table, touching him on the arm when we talked or he made me laugh, etc ....
Again ... just thinking out loud ... have a great weekend ...
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
you give good advice so take some of it for yourself ... detach some more, work on you, take care of you.