Hi Eric, I'm so sorry you find yourself in this circumstance. You truly sound like a great guy who is committed to changing your life. I just can't understand why the other half's can not see and appreciate the efforts we are making - so much blindness!
In the meantime - my question to you is have you guys considered engaging a mediator? I'm just thinking that might be less adversarial but still proactive on your part.
Just my two cents!
A
M - 46 H - 47 T - 20 yrs M - 19 yrs DS 7yrs DS 6yrs DD 4 yrs Bomb - 4/3/10 My Sitch