Hi Eric,
I'm so sorry you find yourself in this circumstance. You truly sound like a great guy who is committed to changing your life. I just can't understand why the other half's can not see and appreciate the efforts we are making - so much blindness!

In the meantime - my question to you is have you guys considered engaging a mediator? I'm just thinking that might be less adversarial but still proactive on your part.

Just my two cents!

A


M - 46
H - 47
T - 20 yrs M - 19 yrs
DS 7yrs DS 6yrs DD 4 yrs
Bomb - 4/3/10
My Sitch