Exposed finally,,limbo land

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I’m in a bit of a pickle, if she continues with the EA/PA, and I need to up the ante, and ask her to leave the house. I move ½ of checking to new account, I can not cover the bills on my income alone?
I don’t see a way to stay out of bankruptcy if we split, the house would go into foreclosure, and then what? This is another part of this whole thing that scares the hell out of me.