I wanted to know for those who have reconciled, during the time the sitch was bad did your WS express same feeling "ILBNILY" "can never be with you again" "we got married for all the wrong reasons" did they ever 180 since you started to piece back together and say "ILY" or "I am happy with you"...cause as of now I just can't ever see that stage happening.
OIN,
all thru July, 2007 -- my wife tells me (and voice recordings pick up her telling OM): "I can't stay married to Puppy anymore." . . ."I can't STAND you!" . . . "I WANT A DIVORCE!" . . . "Our marriage has been bad for a LONG TIME, and YOU KNOW IT!" . . . "If I have to stay married to (Puppy) much longer, I think I"ll be PHYSICALLY ILL!"
Aug. 19, 2007 -- my wife sends TMs to OM: "I love you" . . . "No one ever did it for me like you before."
Aug. 24, 2007 -- my wife begs me to take her back, sobbing, telling me "You're my home" . . . "I've always loved you" . . . "I can't imagine being married to anyone but you!"
VERY normal stuff, OIN -- her brain's a mess right now, chemically.
